Wedding Fragrance for Grooms + Photo Essay

Wedding Fragrance for Grooms

As if men don’t enough to worry about on their wedding day…right? You can imagine the poor hung over fools frantically fumbling around at the back of the bathroom cabinet on the morning of the wedding hoping they’d come across some scent Gran had bought them for Christmas eons past…can’t you? I’ve only ever had to prepare a groom for his wedding the once, I was best man for my brother and if he was an example of a typical man on his wedding day it’s a safe bet that pretty much all men fall to pieces in exactly the same way he did! He he he

I’ve been doing a little reading on the interweb to see if there were anything suggesting wedding fragrance for grooms and I was shocked, given that we live in an age of ‘metro sexuality’, that 99.9% of advice regarding which fragrance one might contemplate wearing on the day of nuptials and the exchanging of rings was directed at the bride. Many ‘advice’ rich sources even went so far as to suggest to the bride that she ‘ditch the fragrance he normally wears and buy him something you like instead’! Hang on a cotton-picking-minute! Roll back!! Remember? I clearly suggested in my opening paragraph that men cannot think for themselves. But really?

I hear you laughing already.

D&K Wedding #1

Imagine the chaos if two men were permitted to marry each other! Of course this depends entirely on which country you live in. Well this is exactly what my partner of 15 years and I did two weeks ago. After 12 months of planning we left the backward backwaters of Australia and jetted over to Las Vegas to get married. We were not alone. 35 of our nearest and dearest met us there to celebrate and share the love with us.

D&K Wedding #2

We had almost everything planned, which is no mean feat when we are in Australia and our planner the USA. We had excellent help from a few friends who bent over backwards to make it all come together and run so smoothly. My husband and I were left to our own devices and to make our own decisions (men cannot think for themselves remember) on a number of things, for example where we’d all eat and drink after the ceremony, what colour boutonnières we wanted and what we wanted to wear (very dangerous in my case as I dress for comfort, not style or fashion) and of course this included our personal choice of fragrance.

D&K Wedding #3

My husband played it safe and stayed with a fragrance he already owned and liked, but I went with something new. In my opinion one should wear a fragrance because one loves it. A fragrance can and should make you feel good, evil, safe or dangerous, attractive or aloof…it’s a personal thing right? Incidentally I’m not a fan of purchasing fragrances for other people unless I know they already wear it or have requested it as a gift. So what did we wear?

Tiffany for Men Tiffany FragranticaPhoto Stolen Fragrantica

I wore Tiffany for Men on the day. I’ve often popped into Tiffany & Co. to spritz myself with his classic as I loved its powdery scent. Imagine how shocked I was firstly to find out it contained patchouli (my favourite) but secondly that Jacques Polge was the nose behind it. I don’t have a sensitive nose at all, but I know what smells good…and this is good. It’s powdery, light and very subtle – perfect for standing in front of a pastor!

Allure Homme Sport Chanel FragranticaPhoto Stolen Fragrantica

My husband wore Chanel’s Allure Homme Sport. Again, this is another subtle but fresh fragrance and, once the spice from Allure mingled with the spice of Tiffany we were all spicy together! Allure doesn’t smell great on my skin, but, it’s not about me…it’s my husband’s fragrance. Chanel’s Allure Homme Sport is also pastor-friendly and wouldn’t you know it – slap me across the face with a wilted bouquet of roses – Allure Homme Sport is ANOTHER Jacques Polge treasure!

Until next time stinkers.


PS. In case you were wondering…yes I did wear white!
David & Kymme wedding

21 comments on “Wedding Fragrance for Grooms + Photo Essay

  1. This is a great story, knowing how much you guys love and care for each other. One day even Australia will acknowledge that the union you have is a marriage. Congratulations guys.
    Portia x

  2. Jan Last says:

    Congratulations! So good to know people who love each other can form a union. If you have been together this long, it will be a happily ever after for both of you.

  3. susan says:

    Thanks for blogging about wedding fragrances from the mail perspective, and congratulations!!

  4. Janice says:

    Congratulations! I don’t think my husband even wore fragrance on our wedding day (he’s exactly the type you describe who would think of it only at the last minute, if at all), but it’s great that you both put some thought into it and chose fragrances you love.

  5. patriciaC says:

    Wonderful pictures, thanks for sharing with us. May you live happily ever after! Oh and i have to try the tiffany for men!

  6. leathermountain says:


  7. Fatima says:

    It’s a pleasure to see two people looking so happy, I wish you both the best and then some!

  8. Dearest Junkies
    And might I say you look exceeding dapper in the white.
    Now that Tiffany scent has been winking at me from it’s deliciously coloured box and your happy tale is pushing me over into trying it.
    All the very best to the both of you.
    Yours ever
    The Perfumed Dandy

  9. solanace says:

    Congratulations and a truckload of happiness to the spicy-smelling couple!
    (And yes, you look great in white!)

  10. tammy says:


    I can well imagine all the scented advice being for brides…so glad you and your husband were able to get along fine on your own. 🙂

    I wish you both every possible joy in your new life together.

  11. poodle says:

    Congratulations!!! I hope you have a lifetime of happiness together.

  12. Azar says:

    Congratulations! What beautiful photos. My very best wishes for more wonderful years together!

  13. KCV says:

    Thank you all for your kind words!
    KCV xx

  14. mim says:

    Mazel Tov!
    Everything sounds lovely, I didn’t even know there was a Tiffany fragrance for men–it sounds great!
    Yeah, that whole dumb men/ hapless husband/father trope is annoying.

  15. What a wonderful story! You look great in white and I know you smelled gtreat too. The image of a panicked groom digging around a medicine cabinet gave me a chuckle. I don’t doubt that there are quite a few groomsin the same camp.

  16. David Watson says:

    Congrats guys, looks like a wonderful day with your loved ones.

  17. Annina says:

    Warmest congratulations from MN, where our marriage equality law just became official!

    I wish you many blessings on your marriage, and a lifetime of shouldering life’s ups and downs together.

    Beautiful and classy choices for wedding-day scent! On our wedding day (May of 2000), I wore Une Fleur de Chanel (limited ed) and my husband wore the sadly discontinued Gucci Rush (for men).

  18. Tonia says:

    Thanks for sharing your beautiful day with us! A BIG congratulations to you both and I hope every day is filled with lots of spicy good times 😉

  19. Laurels says:

    Congratulations to you both! The white suit is very dapper, and looks perfect for Vegas in mid-summer.

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